An evolutionary perspective on effective vs. ineffective pick-up lines

Corwin Senko1, Viviana Fyffe

  • 1State University of New York-New Paltz, Psychology Department, 600 Hawk Drive, New Paltz, NY 12561, USA. senkoc@newpaltz.edu

Summary

Women prefer men using direct or innocuous pick-up lines for long-term relationships, associating them with trustworthiness. Attractiveness, however, consistently predicts short-term relationship interest, signaling good genes regardless of the approach.

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