Misery loves company: when sadness increases the desire for social connectedness

Heather M Gray1, Keiko Ishii, Nalini Ambady

  • 1Harvard Medical School, Division on Addictions, Cambridge Health Alliance, Medford, MA 02155, USA. hgray@challiance.org

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