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Is friendship akin to kinship?
Joshua M Ackerman1, Douglas T Kenrick, Mark Schaller
1Department of Psychology, Arizona State University, Tempe, AZ 85287-1104, USA.
Summary
Women treat close friends more like family than men do, especially regarding incest avoidance and nepotism. This suggests gender-specific cognitive processes in close relationships.
Area of Science:
- Evolutionary Psychology
- Social Psychology
- Cognitive Science
Background:
- Close friendships are often considered genetically equivalent to stranger relationships.
- However, evolutionary reasoning suggests that close friendships might activate kinship-related processes, particularly in women.
Purpose of the Study:
- To investigate whether close friendships elicit kinship-like responses in humans.
- To examine gender differences in the treatment of friends, kin, and strangers in domains of functional significance.
Main Methods:
- Two studies were conducted comparing responses to strangers, friends, and kin.
- Study 1: Assessed emotional responses to imagined sexual contact with kin, friends, and strangers.
- Study 2: Evaluated benevolent attributions towards actual kin, friends, and strangers.
Main Results:
- Women exhibited kin-like emotional responses towards friends in imagined incest scenarios, unlike men.
- Women made more benevolent attributions to friends, similar to their attributions to kin.
- Men's attributions to friends were more akin to their attributions to strangers.
Conclusions:
- Findings support a domain-specific rather than a domain-general model of intimate relationships.
- Results suggest that women's close friendships may activate kinship-specific cognitive and affective processes.
- The study highlights potential sex differences in the modular structure of social cognition.
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