Paths of adolescent ego development: links with family life and individual adjustment

In broad strokes, we have reviewed family contexts and adjustment of adolescent ego development. We concluded with group portraits, the salient family and individual characteristics of adolescents who followed six paths of ego development. There are strong differences in development--the profound arrests and the dramatic progressions. Although these composite pictures provide us with clearer ideas about each of the paths, we do not yet have a detailed understanding of how adolescents following the varied paths experience the world and relate in their families. Certain questions can only be pursued with this information. For instance, are there ways that parents of the steady conformist adolescents speak and behave that restrain their sons' and daughters' separation from the family? Or do the profoundly arrested teenagers provoke their parents to be less encouraging of their differences from other family members? These questions, touching on complex interactions flowing between parents and adolescents, require a closer look inside the families of teenagers following these paths of arrest and advance. In a work soon to be published, we listen closely to the voices of 13 adolescents and their parents, in solo and while together as a family. These narratives convey the message that paths of individual development are embedded within the intricate matrix of family relationships. The teenagers and their families closely and often poignantly illustrate the ways in which adolescents and parents handle the central dilemma posed during this phase of the life cycle: how to separate from the family and reaffirm one's place within it.