Doing the best for one's child: satisficing versus optimizing parentalism

Jeffrey Blustein1

  • 1City College, City University of New York, New York, NY, USA. jblustein@ccny.cuny.edu

Summary

The principle that parents must optimize their child's best interests creates significant burdens and societal issues. A new theory, "satisficing parentalism," offers a more morally sound approach to child-rearing.

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