Healing the social self: how parents whose children were killed in terror attacks construct the experience of help

Chaya Possick1, Michal Shamai, Ruth Ann Sadeh

  • 1School of Social Work, Ariel University Center, P.O.B. 3, 40700, Ariel, Israel, chayapossick@gmail.com.

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