Let me hear of your mercy in the mourning: forgiveness, grief, and continuing bonds

Elizabeth A Gassin1, Gregory J Lengel

  • 1a Department of Behavioral Sciences , Olivet Nazarene University , Bourbonnais , Illinois , USA.

Death Studies
|April 25, 2014
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