Using a Non-Fit Message Helps to De-Intensify Negative Reactions to Tough Advice

Ilona Fridman1, Karen A Scherr2, Paul A Glare3

  • 1Columbia Business School, New York, NY, USA ifridman16@gsb.columbia.edu.

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