Emotional experiences of ghosting

Gili Freedman1, Darcey N Powell2, Benjamin Le3

  • 1St. Mary's College of Maryland.

Summary

Ghosting, or ending relationships by stopping communication, impacts individuals differently. While ghosters feel guilt and relief, those ghosted experience hurt and threats to fundamental needs.

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