['When I talk with you about discrimination, I don't feel so small']

Background   In recent years, diversity among therapists in terms of migratory background and openly expressed LGBTQ+ identity has increased. As a result, there are more often dyads in which the patient and therapist belong to the same minority. Aim   To illustrate how having a similar background can influence the therapeutic relationship. These illustrations can help practitioners reflect on how best make use of this similarity. Method   We describe two therapies where therapist and patient shared migratory background and a LGBTQ+ identity. Possible advantages and disadvantages of these similarities are discussed. Finally, we discuss the barriers that therapists can experience to introduce these themes in supervision and intervision. Results   In the case reports, both patients seemed to benefit from having a therapist from the same minority group, partly because he made the similarities in identity open to discussion. They felt that they were understood and were less afraid of negative reactions, which made them feel safe and supported to work on their own conflicts in this dyad. Conclusion   Discussing similarities in identity between therapist and patient can be of added value. With a shared migration background and LGBTQ+ identity, it seems that the same mechanisms often play a role.