Self-control and self-expression

Michail D Kokkoris1

  • 1Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam, School of Business and Economics, De Boelelaan 1105, 1081 HV Amsterdam, the Netherlands.

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Summary

Self-control can either express or suppress our true selves, influencing how we see ourselves and how others perceive us. Individual differences and context shape whether self-control signals authenticity or inauthenticity.

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