Personal Testimony About Dealing with Loss and Self-Care

William P Selig1

  • 1HJ International Graduate School for Peace and Public Leadership.

Summary

Hospital chaplains face personal grief while providing spiritual care. Self-care is crucial for effectively supporting others through loss and maintaining emotional well-being.

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