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Self-Expansion Activities with a Partner as One Path to Well-Being
Arthur Aron1, Jennifer M Tomlinson2
1Department of Psychology, Stony Brook University, Stony Brook, NY 11794, USA.
Behavioral Sciences (Basel, Switzerland)
|May 27, 2026
Summary
Engaging in novel, shared activities with a romantic partner boosts relationship quality. This enhancement in relationship quality, in turn, significantly improves overall well-being.
Area of Science:
- Psychology
- Social Psychology
- Relationship Science
Background:
- The self-expansion model extensively studies relationship benefits for the self.
- Few studies explicitly link relationship quality to enhanced well-being.
- Relationships may lose novelty over time, potentially leading to decreased excitement.
Purpose of the Study:
- To explore how self-expanding activities with a romantic partner enhance relationship quality.
- To investigate the subsequent impact of improved relationship quality on overall well-being.
- To highlight the specific well-being effects derived from self-expansion within couples.
Main Methods:
- Review of the basic self-expansion model.
- Analysis of studies on self-expansion for couples, focusing on marital satisfaction and well-being outcomes.
- Examination of research (experiments, daily diaries) demonstrating that shared self-expanding activities increase relationship quality.
- Discussion of studies linking enhanced relationship quality to increased well-being.
Main Results:
- Shared self-expanding activities are shown to increase relationship quality.
- Strengthening relationships through these activities contributes to overall well-being.
- Self-expansion within relationships can reinvigorate them by introducing novelty and challenge.
Conclusions:
- Novel and challenging shared activities are key to reinvigorating romantic relationships.
- Enhancing relationship quality through self-expanding activities is a direct pathway to improved well-being.
- Understanding these mechanisms is crucial for explaining how relationship improvements impact psychological health.
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