Big Thoughts in Little Jars: Memory Days for Families Where a Child has Died

James McParland1, Bernadette O'Gorman2, Jacqueline Victor2

  • 1Camden and Islington NHS Foundation Trust (Since Moved to University College London Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust), London, England.

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