The ambivalent copulator: ejaculatory incompetence and identity diffusion

This case report illustrates how a serious identity problem is crucial in dynamically understanding this rare sexual dysfunction. Ten retarded ejaculators treated by the author tend to be extremely compulsive and neurasthenic, with a failure to develop basic trust reflected in an obvious or concealed paranoid stance toward life. They exaggerate the destructive potential of their anger, perceive women as being invasive, possessive and controlling and lack basic sexual knowledge. Differences with the dynamics of the other male sexual dysfunctions are outlined. The successful treatment outcome in eight cases was greatly influenced by the partner's personality.