Psychotherapeutic issues with family members of persons with physical disabilities

The need for individual psychotherapy for family members of persons with physical disabilities is growing as medical interventions improve and survival rates increase. The family members' grief reactions are one part of the adjustment process. Psychological difficulties that develop are influenced by a number of considerations. The family member as psychotherapy patient is part of a family unit whose balance, functioning and development has been disrupted. Factors relevant to physical disability, family systems approaches, and psychodynamic theory are influential in the treatment. The extent and type of a relative's disability determines the practical and personal impact for the patient as does the relationship of the patient to the person with the disability. A spouse, parent, child or sibling will each experience different practical and emotional consequences within the context of his/her ages, stage of life, and culture. The circumstances of the onset of the disability, the quality of the relationship, and the psychodynamic balance within each person and within the relationship are important issues to consider. All of the above affect the meaning of the disability for each family member personally, interpersonally, intrapsychically, and within the family unit. Because of limited experience with these emotionally loaded issues, possibilities for countertransference are significant. Recommendation is made for increased exposure to the area of physical disability in the training of psychotherapists.