Turning shame inside-out: "humiliated fury" in young adolescents

Sander Thomaes1, Hedy Stegge, Tjeert Olthof

  • 1Department of Psychology, Utrecht University, Utrecht, The Netherlands. s.thomaes@uu.nl

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