Excitement in shame: the price we pay

Stewart L Aledort1

  • 1National Group Psychotherapy Institute of the Washington School of Psychiatry, the Washington Psychoanalytic Society, and is Clinical Associate Professor at George Washington University Medical Center. He is also in private practice in Washington, DC.

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