How Children Construct Views of Themselves: A Social-Developmental Perspective

Eddie Brummelman1,2, Sander Thomaes3

  • 1Stanford University.

Child Development
|September 15, 2017
PubMed
Summary

Children develop their self-concept through social interactions, feedback, comparisons, and cultural values. Understanding these origins highlights the social nature of self-development in children.

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