Mending broken bonds in military couples using emotionally focused therapy for couples: Tips and discoveries

Irina Wen1, Laura E Price1, Amanda M Spray1

  • 1Department of Psychiatry, New York University School of Medicine, Steven A. Cohen Military Family Center, NYU Langone Health, New York City, New York.

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