Does Shared Parenting Help or Hurt Children in High Conflict Divorced Families?

Nicole E Mahrer1, Karey O'Hara2, Irwin N Sandler2

  • 1University of California, Los Angeles.

Summary

Shared parenting after divorce may harm child adjustment in high-conflict families long-term. However, this effect is less apparent when conflict is assessed during or shortly after divorce, or when parenting quality is high.

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