Do women pretend orgasm to retain a mate?

Farnaz Kaighobadi1, Todd K Shackelford, Viviana A Weekes-Shackelford

  • 1HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies, New York State Psychiatric Institute and Columbia University, 1051 Riverside Dr., Unit 15, New York, NY 10032, USA. fk2281@columbia.edu

Archives of Sexual Behavior
|November 18, 2011
PubMed
Summary

Women may fake orgasms as a mate retention strategy. This behavior is linked to perceived infidelity risk and performing actions to keep a partner, especially when infidelity is a concern.

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